Sunday, February 27, 2011

Peter Pan Syndrome

More commonly referred to as PPS in my house is something that I have had for many years now (at least 35). I don't want to "Grow Up" I want to be a kid forever! Somehow I came to the conclusion that the rules and regulations that go along with being a "Grown Up" were too restrictive and required great amounts of "Closed Mindedness" so it never appealed to me.

I can remember people asking me what I wanted to be when I grew up and for some reason I created a LOT of pressure on myself to give an appropriate answer, one that was based on my desire to "Impress" people. In retrospect when I consider asking that question of my kids it makes me stop and ask myself why would I want to know what they want to be in a future that does not exist. I want to know what they desire to be RIGHT NOW! and "I don't know" is always an acceptable answer. I feel that allowing my children to become what they desire is the healthy and happy way to be. I would rather be a "Facilitator" than a "Dictator"...besides many "Grown Ups" are too busy with their careers and social life to spend time with their kids...

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